INFERNO

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TODAY
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IGNITE THE FIRE

Battle to sainthood, shoulder to shoulder.

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THIS WEEKTOMORROW

Inferno Men’s Forum

Kendrick Castillo — Beloved Son, Selfless Hero

Wed, Jul 29 · St Frances Cabrini Parish

I’M IN
THE YEAR'S MAIN CHARGENOV 21

IMC26 · THE BROADMOOR

Sat, Nov 21 · Mass · Adoration · Procession · Keynotes

Stefanick. Msgr Shea. Mike Sweeney. Shayne Smith. Fr Cromly. Sixty thousand square feet of brothers. Your sons ride free.

GET YOUR SEAT
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THIS SUNDAYTOMORROW

17th Sunday in Ordinary Time

July 26, 2026  ·  Matthew 13:44–52

Sell it all for the one field
BRING A BRO

Don’t wait till you die to have them carry you.

FUEL · BEFORE YOU WALK IN

17th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Matthew 13:44–52  ·  Sell it all for the one field

Come Holy Spirit · the Gospel · where we are · what it demands

FORGE · THE MEETING

Meet with your bros.

Seven stages · the psalm · Lectio · the six in your back pocket

CHARGE · OUT THE DOOR

One act. Seven days. Yes or no.

Three to carry · the micro-challenge · lock it in

THE SACRAMENT NOBODY EXPLAINED

CONFESSION

You are not the only man who stopped. You are in the majority, and most of them want back in. What follows is the whole thing, start to finish, so that not knowing how is never the reason again.

WHY NOT JUST TELL GOD

For the everyday stuff He forgives a hundred ways. For anything that broke the thing between you and Him, this is the way He left. Not one option among several. The ordinary one.

God does the forgiving. Nobody else can, and nobody else claims to. He decided to do it through a man with a voice, so you would know the day it happened. Alone in your truck you can be sorry. You cannot be told.

And real sorrow, out of love for Him, meaning fully to get to Confession, is not left waiting for Saturday. But meaning to get there is part of it. That is not a way around the room. It is the way in.

“Whose sins you shall forgive, they are forgiven them; and whose sins you shall retain, they are retained.”

– JESUS · JOHN 20:23

Read the back half again. He gave them the power to hold sins back too, and nobody can hold back what he was never told. That is why it is out loud.

IT HAS BEEN YEARS

You think he has not heard yours. He has, and worse, and last week.

You do not need to remember how. Sit down and say: Father, it has been twenty years and I do not know how to do this. That is exactly the right way to start. He takes it from there, one question at a time, and he will make sure you get it all out.

Go to any parish you like. Nobody has to know your face. The screen is always there, and nobody can make you come out from behind it. Most parishes will also sit face to face if you ask.

What you say in that room stays in that room. A priest cannot repeat one word of it to anyone, for any reason, ever. Not to your wife, not to your bishop, not in a courtroom. Not even after you are dead.

The seal binds him, not you. If someone is getting hurt, say it in the room and then say it outside the room too: to her, to a doctor, to the police. Tell the priest that is what you are going to do. He will help you do it. The seal protects the room. It was never a place to park something.

You walk out with your sins forgiven. Not managed. Gone.

What is not gone is what you owe. If you took it, give it back. If you lied about a man, tell the men you lied to. Forgiven is not settled up, and he will tell you the same.

THE SAME SIN AGAIN

You have brought this one before. Twice, or fifty times. Walking back in with the same thing does not make you a fraud.

A man who keeps coming back with the same wound is not failing at Confession. He is doing the one thing that keeps a man in the fight, which is refusing to fight it alone.

The priest is not keeping a tally. Put yours down. The Pledge said so first.

“I will not make this Pledge an idol, a box to check, nor beat myself up with shame/despair if I fall short in any commitment.”

– THE INFERNO PLEDGE

One thing he does need. Not a promise that you will never fall again. Just that today you want to be done with it. Wanting out is the whole ask.

Go back. Say the same thing. Say it as many times as it takes.

If the same thing keeps winning, that is not only a Confession matter. Tell the priest, and tell one brother, and get whatever help a man would get for anything else this stubborn.

Sit or kneel. He greets you and makes the Sign of the Cross. Cross yourself with him.

Say it: Bless me, Father, for I have sinned. It has been [how long] since my last confession.

Tell him your sins. Plainly. The serious ones by name, and how many times, near enough. No speeches, and do not explain who else was at fault. Forget one and it is still forgiven; bring it next time. The only thing that does not work is deciding to keep one back.

Finish with: For these and all the sins of my past life, I am sorry. He will talk to you, and he may read you a line of Scripture. Then he gives you a penance. Hold on to it.

He asks for your act of contrition. If it is gone from you, say so and be sorry out loud in your own words. That counts.

He absolves you. He raises his hand, and it ends: I absolve you from your sins, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. That is the second it is done, whether you feel anything or not. Answer Amen.

He says: Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good. You answer: His mercy endures for ever. Then he sends you out. That is the end.

Do your penance. Prayers, before you leave the building. A call or a debt, today. Cannot do it, or do not understand it? Say so right there and he gives you another. Forget it and you are still forgiven. Do it when you remember.

THE ACT OF CONTRITION

O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended Thee, and I detest all my sins because I dread the loss of heaven and the pains of hell; but most of all because they offend Thee, my God, who art all good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of Thy grace, to confess my sins, to do penance, and to amend my life. Amen.

If that one will not come, this one is in the book and it is enough: Lord Jesus, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.

A mirror, not a charge sheet. Read it slowly. What is not your life, skip. Where it catches, that is the thing to say. You do not have to bring all of it, and what you forget is forgiven too.

Two kinds, because men ask. Some sin breaks the thing with God. Some damages it. For the breaking kind, three things have to be true at once: it was serious, you knew it, and you chose it anyway. If one is missing, it is the other kind.

Bring both. Only the first kind has to be there.

GOD

When did I last pray when I did not want anything? Have I skipped Mass on a Sunday or a holy day of obligation because I did not feel like going? Sick, or holding the house together for someone, is not what this asks. Have I decided God was finished with me, and stayed away on purpose? Have I gone up for Communion when I knew I should have come here first?

YOUR WIFE

Has anyone in this house ever been afraid of me? My hands, my voice, my driving. Have I been faithful in what I look at as well as in what I do? Have I let her carry alone what was mine to carry? Have we shut the door on more children without ever putting it in front of God?

YOUR CHILDREN

When did I last give one of them my whole attention, phone down? Have I been angry at them for something that was not theirs? Have I left the faith for someone else to hand them? If they are grown: when did I last say one true thing to them about God?

YOUR BODY

Where has appetite been running me: drink, food, the phone? Pornography: what I look at when nobody is up. Say that one plainly in there. He has heard it from better men than us. Have I settled for calling it stress?

YOUR WORK

However I spend my day, paid or not: have I shaded the truth for a client, a boss, a number, or to keep the peace? Have I taken credit that was another man’s? If men answer to me, have I treated them as costs? Have I taken hours from my own house and called it providing when it was something else?

YOUR BROTHERS AND YOUR TONGUE

Have I gone quiet on a man who needed me? Have I let a brother carry something alone because asking was awkward? Have I run a man down when he could not answer? Have I lied to stay comfortable?

WHAT THIS APP WILL NOT DO

It will not tell you whether something was mortal or venial, whether you may receive Communion, or what a divorce or a second marriage means for you. Not out of caution. Because it is a phone, and those questions belong to a priest who can look at you while you ask them.

Take every one of them into the room in exactly these words: Father, I am not sure about this. That is a complete and honest place to start.

FIND ONE THIS WEEK

Saturday afternoon before the vigil Mass, at most parishes. Many also hear them in the half hour before a weekday Mass. Times move, so check the parish site or call the office.

If you want it sooner than the schedule allows, call and ask. You are not imposing: a parish priest is bound to make time for a man who asks. They say yes.

The Church asks every man for this at least once a year. That is the floor, not the target.

CANNOT GET THERE

Call the parish office and ask for a priest to come to the house or the hospital. Confession, Anointing and Communion all travel. This is ordinary work for him, not a favor. Anyone can make the call for you.

Do not wait for it to be an emergency.

Nothing here to check off. Go.

1 · COMMIT

T1The interior life, before the phone wins the morning.

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FIRST LIGHT05:45 · yours to set

T3 THE NIGHT WATCH

Sixty seconds at day’s end. Stays on this phone. Ammunition for question 6.

Where did I fight well?

Where did I fall short?

Who needs me tomorrow?

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SUNDAY · TOMORROW

Sell it all for the one field

CHARGE: LOCKED IN

The week’s one act, every time he checks the time.

IT ALL STARTS WITH PRAYER

PRAYER

Inferno builds men of prayer, men committed to daily conversation and contemplation with the God of the universe.

It is the first of the three pillars, before friendship and before evangelization, because the other two run dry without it. It is also the one weapon you already have on you, right now, that no one can take.

The Inferno Pledge asks three things of a man, every month of the year:

PRAY: ten, twenty or thirty minutes, every day.

MEET: one bro, one Christ-centred conversation, every month.

INVITE: one man to a Christian gathering, every month.

Humility, authentic masculinity and discipline are the virtues underneath all three.

Latin for divine reading. Fifteen minutes. This is how Inferno prays Scripture, alone and at the table.

This is not study. You are not mining the text for information or getting ready to have an opinion about it. You are letting God say one thing to you today, and then answering Him.

1LECTIO · READ

Read the passage slowly, out loud if you can. Then read it again. Do not rush to make it mean something.

2MEDITATIO · STAY

One word or line will catch. Stay on it. Turn it over. Why that one, today, for you? Do not go hunting for a better one.

3ORATIO · ANSWER

Now talk back. Plainly, in your own words, about your own life. This is the part most men skip, and it is the part that makes it prayer instead of reading.

4CONTEMPLATIO · REST

Stop talking. Sit in it. Silence is not dead air. It is the part where He gets a word in. Give it three minutes before you decide nothing is happening.

5ACTIO · CARRY IT

Walk out with one thing. Not a feeling. An act. That is the whole point of the CHARGE at the end of a COR meeting.

AT THE TABLE

When your COR prays it together: two men read the passage aloud, then the room sits in silence for three full minutes. Tell them it is coming so nobody panics in it. Silence is sacred, not awkward. Break it with one question: What jumped out to you?

And keep it on the ground. Do not be so heavenly minded you are no earthly good.

COME HOLY SPIRIT

Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of Thy faithful and enkindle in them the fire of Thy love. Send forth Thy Spirit and they shall be created. And Thou shalt renew the face of the earth.

O God, who by the light of the Holy Spirit didst instruct the hearts of the faithful, grant that by that same Holy Spirit we may be truly wise and ever rejoice in His consolation. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

“Pray without ceasing.”

– 1 THESSALONIANS 5:17

“Jesus often withdrew to the wilderness to pray.”

– LUKE 5:16

“This spirit does not go out except by prayer and fasting.”

– MATTHEW 17:21

“I humble my soul with fasting.”

– PSALM 69:10

WHEN YOU MISS A DAY

From the Pledge, in Inferno’s own words: do not make this an idol, a box to check, nor beat yourself up with shame or despair if you fall short. If you fall, be encouraged by the fall of Christ, and lean on your brothers, the way He leaned on Simon of Cyrene, to help you get back up.

WHEN IT IS MORE THAN A MISSED DAY

Confession, start to finish, even after twenty years. The whole thing is in there, so that not knowing how is never the reason.

PRAY FOR EACH OTHER

Inferno has a prayer team. Send yours: for you, your wife, your kids, a man you are carrying. Men you have never met will pray for it.

SEND A PRAYER REQUEST

“Consume my heart with that burning fire with which Your Heart is ever inflamed.”

– ST. JOHN HENRY NEWMAN

His motto: Cor ad Cor loquitur, heart speaks to heart. COR is Latin for heart, and the root of courage.

MAKE THE PLEDGE

BATTLE TO SAINTHOOD

Published by Inferno Mission, a 501(c)(3), EIN 92-3468840. 2026.

THIS PHONE

SETTINGS

What you set here stays on this phone.

TEXT SIZE

For a dark garage, a bright parking lot, or eyes that have earned it.

Be watchful, stand fast in the faith, do manfully, and be strengthened.

1 Corinthians 16:13 · this line grows with the setting

The tab bar, the app bar and the wire keep their size on purpose, so the furniture of the app cannot break underneath the words.

HOW THE APP BEHAVES
LEADER MODE

The Trail Guide, Motivator and Traffic Cop notes ride along in the meeting. Leave it on and it is there every week.

THE WIRE

The strip of dates across the top. Turn it off and the app runs without it.

REDUCE MOTION

Stops the scrolling, the embers and the rest of it, without hunting through your phone’s own settings.

WHERE YOU ARE

Both boards open here. Change it on a board and it lands back here too.

SCRIPTURE

Which translation the Gospel opens in.

Douay-Rheims is public domain and ready now. The other two land when their licences do.

WHAT THIS PHONE REMEMBERS

All of it lives on this phone. None of it is sent anywhere.

    BEHIND YOU

    EVERY SUNDAY SO FAR

    Go back through any of it. It keeps.

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    NOTHING BEHIND YOU YET

    Sunday is coming. Start there.

    COME AND SEE

    T1EVENTS THAT BUILD

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    T5

    SET THE MILE HIGH CITY ABLAZE

    Mission to Men in Denver! Fanning the FIRE to Denver! VIVA CRISTO REY!

    EMAIL SHAUN ABOUT DENVER COR
    TAKE A SEAT

    JOIN A COR

    Every standing table on the Inferno board. Tap one and an email opens with your introduction started. A real man replies. No forms, no accounts.

    Rosters change. The living board is always at infernomen.com/cor. Not sure which table? Write mission@infernomen.com. A man answers, not a database.

    OPEN YOUR OWN TABLE

    T1START A COR

    T2Forty-plus tables are already burning across the Front Range. Here is how the next one starts: yours.

    T3
    1COMMIT
    3CLAN
    12COR
    72COMMISSION
    5kCOMMUNITY
    T4 STEP 1

    PRAY FIRST

    It all starts with prayer. That is Inferno’s first pillar, not a nicety. Take it to the Sacred Heart and ask Him for three names. Write down the men He gives you.

    STEP 2

    GET YOUR THREE

    You do not need twelve men. You need three brothers. That is the CLAN rung of the ladder, and every COR on the Front Range started there. Text the three names tonight. Say it plain: a table, once a week, for men who want to be saints.

    STEP 3

    CALL IT IN

    Email mission@infernomen.com with the subject line “Inferno COR Group”. Inferno will put a seasoned COR leader alongside you for your first weeks. You are not inventing this alone.

    STEP 4

    SET THE TABLE

    Pick a rhythm the standing tables already prove out: weekly or every other week, Tuesday or Thursday evening, Friday or Saturday morning. A parish hall, a kitchen, a garage. Sixty to ninety minutes. Same time, same place. Consistency is what makes it a table and not an event.

    STEP 5

    KEEP IT C-O-R

    Christ Centered and Confidential: what is said at the table stays at the table, and that line is load-bearing. Orante: it is prayed, not just discussed. Relational: brothers, not attendance. Hold those three and the rest can flex.

    T5 STEP 6

    RUN THE FIRST MEETING OFF THIS APP

    Open COR MEETING and run it top to bottom. FUEL is what the men read before they walk in. FORGE is the room itself: arrive, vision cast, introductions, psalms in canon, Lectio, check-in, intercessions, with leader mode open for the technique behind each stage. CHARGE is the one act every man carries out the door. The app holds the table up until the table holds itself. Then grow toward twelve, and when you pass twelve, plant the next one. That is the 72.

    T6 AUTHENTICITYFRIENDSHIPCOURAGE
    T7

    Leave no man behind. Loneliness is a real threat to the men around you. A table is the counter-attack.

    T8SEND THE EMAIL FIND AN EXISTING COR
    SUPPORT THE MISSION

    T1FUEL THE FIRE.

    T3

    World-Changers

    $300/m

    Visionaries

    $150/m

    Disciple-Makers

    $75/m

    Trailblazers

    $45/m

    Fire-starters

    $25/m

    FUEL THE FIRE
    T1

    BATTLE TO SAINTHOOD

    WHO WE ARE

    T2WE ARE INFERNO

    T3Igniting a Culture of Evangelization that Empowers Men to Lead in the Battle to Sainthood.

    Win the Man / Win the Fam

    Restore the Man / Reclaim the Family / Renew the Church / Revive the Culture

    T4The name Inferno refers to the unquenchable fire of The Holy Spirit that grows and spreads in the form of love, passion, and fearless dedication to God.

    We are a band of brothers building community and leading our families to sainthood; shoulder to shoulder.

    We are not another Program — This is Your Invitation Into A Battle Worth Fighting.

    PRAYER: it all starts with prayer.

    FRIENDSHIP: the arena for good news.

    EVANGELIZATION: not optional. Missional.

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    1COMMIT
    3CLAN
    12COR
    72COMMISSION
    5kCOMMUNITY

    A COR is not a program you attend. It is a table you set: same men, same hour, same room, week after week, until the men around it would notice if you were missing.

    You do not need twelve. Start with three. Christ Centered and Confidential, Orante, Relational. Hold those and the rest can flex.

    THE PALLBEARERS

    “Don’t wait till you die to have your bros carry you.”

    Six men carry a casket. Ask yourself, plainly, whether you could name six who would carry yours, and who would be honoured to. Most men can name two or three. That gap is not a verdict on you. It is your mission for the next year.

    Nothing to fill in here. Carry the question, not a checklist. Then go set the table.

    2017: Four men, a basement, lectio divina. The first COR.

    2018: 110 men at the first gathering.

    2019: Springs Afire. 340 men.

    2022: REBEL fills the Antlers. 600 men.

    2025: Sold out, 1,200 men and a waitlist. We outgrew the building.

    2026: The Broadmoor. 4,000 men. Bring your three.

    AUTHENTICITY

    Humility. Vulnerability. Confidentiality.

    FRIENDSHIP

    Radical hospitality. Accompaniment. Openness. Empathy.

    COURAGE

    Toughness. Discipleship demands discipline.

    T9

    We are not another Program. We are not lonely men seeking to fill our calendar. We are not an “events ministry.”

    “We are working laymen, striving after the Sacred Heart of Jesus, determined to be a saint and have found that we do this better together!”

    – INFERNOMEN.COM

    T6

    “I will not make this Pledge an idol, a box to check, nor beat myself up with shame/despair if I fall short in any commitment.”

    – THE INFERNO PLEDGE

    Be Strong & Courageous.

    Published by Inferno Mission, a 501(c)(3), EIN 92-3468840. 2026.